My wife and I married when we were very young and had been together nearly half of our lives. About 2 years ago, we realized that we have changed so much during our relationship. We both have gotten our educations, begun careers, made different friends, and probably the most significant change came when she came out as gay.
We knew we couldn't stay married, yet, we still cared deeply for each other. I wanted her to have the freedom to explore herself and to find love with a woman, and she wanted me to find out who I might be.
We both wanted to continue to be supportive and loving towards one another as we continue to become who we are.
We searched for nearly two years to find an open-minded therapist who could help us transition our relationship into something new and honor the vows we made to always support and love one another.
Troy was amazing at helping us understand how we can be in each other's lives while learning to be the people we have become.